Mother’s Day was a few days ago and some of the ads that I saw for craft stores and supplies were targeting mothers. Seeing those always makes me laugh because though my mother has always supported me in crocheting and other crafts that I have pursued, she never crocheted.

When I was eight and decided that I wanted to crochet, my mother asked my aunt (my uncle’s wife) what I needed, then took me to the store to let me choose the yarn I wanted. She has always supported me and still supports me in my pursuits. She critiques my work (color choices) and tells other people about my crocheting and other projects.

Later, after I began to show some talent for crochet, she was added to crochet magazine, book and yarn lists because she would buy gifts for me. Since buying my first materials, she bought my first full crochet hook set (which I still own), yarn basket and other accessories over the years. She will tell people that I can read patterns and charts and that I’m really good at crocheting, but she would rather play bridge. She has no desire to learn to crochet and said that when she was in college, a lady at the company she worked for (one of the owners) tried to teach her to knit on company time. She tried, but never took to it. Just because she couldn’t knit (or crochet) didn’t mean that she didn’t appreciate others’ work, it just wasn’t the work she chose or liked to do.

Not every mom is creative or even supportive, so I am glad that my mother has always supported me and encouraged me in my pursuits. Mother’s Day is only one day in which we celebrate mothers but we should also celebrate the mothers (and step-moms, grandmothers, aunts, etc.) who are also our greatest cheerleaders every day, not only the second Sunday in May when we celebrate them.

Everyone talks about and shows what they are currently working on, but what about those items that you have put in “time out” or have tried to forget about because they were so painful? I’m not talking about those first projects when you were first getting the hang of crocheting or knitting, but the ones that you had high hopes for and ambitiously thought… this will be great. Facebook, Pinterest and scores of sites on the internet are filled with beautiful work crafted by skilled crocheters. Even the trials and tests of patterns weren’t perfect the first time.

What happens to those? Last time, I mentioned that I was giving up on a project because the yarn was too splitty. There is also some yarn that I purchased from a thrift store and I think the donor had unraveled the yarn from a project that had several color changes, because what I thought was a small ball of yarn with one long strand, was really a ball of strings wound together. I used some in a project and then I just put the rest in the donation bag.

When projects don’t work out, many people don’t often talk about them. I think that the mistakes and foibles should be on display so that other people see that all crafters don’t have superpowers they are people who struggle and get frustrated in their craft as well. As long as you keep crafting and moving forward, that is all that matters.

Saturday, April 21, is the first Local Yarn Store Day.

Go out and support your local yarn shop! It’s not about need or greed, it’s about shopping local. There is always more space in your yarn stash. For those who have a yarn store in their neighborhood… treasure it and patronize it. I’m still scouting out a new LYS closer to my home, since my favorite closed a couple of years ago, and I always encourage people to support their local businesses.

Go to the TNNA (The National Needlearts Association) site for a list of participating shops.

Yarn and a hook are possibilities.

There are 10, 080 minutes in a day. How many of them do we spend doing things we don’t necessarily want to do? Like waiting for something or traveling to a place? Reading while on a bus works for some, unless you get motion sickness.

Of the 1440 minutes in a day, I spend 45-60 of those crocheting. Some days more and some less but every day I make time to crochet. During my lunch break at work and also during talks or large group seminars where there is a crowd and I’m just listening are opportune times to get a few rows done. When I watch television, I’m generally working on a project. In a group setting, especially with my regular knitting and crocheting group I can be more social if I am crocheting than if I’m reading a book. It is more open than being closed off with a book. Weekdays, I may crochet less and weekends more but several hours a week, there’s a hook in my hand.

For me, it takes about four hours to make a scarf if the stitch pattern isn’t too complicated. Over the course of a week I can make a scarf. A baby hat can be completed in one sitting. Of course life and other obligations sometimes interfere and some weeks I’m more productive, but as long as there’s some progress, it’s not an issues, especially since it’s not a race and any day where I have crocheted, I have been productive. I’m sure I’m like other crafters and the only thing that seems to cooperated and work out is your craft.

People often ask – “where do you find the time?” I have the same amount of time that everyone else does, I just choose to use some of that time to crochet.

The shower gift was a big hit. Here is a picture of the baby blanket and hat. The blanket is to use now and is a 38 inch square in a washable white yarn in a shell stitch. The hat is  for later – sized for a 3-6 month old child so it can be used in the fall.

The two color scarf made it to a strong finish. I decided to do a border, so that the future wearer won’t snag the yarn on the side where the colors were changed. I didn’t have enough of either color left to do a complete border, so I did one half of it in one color and the other in the other color, which works well together and isn’t obtrusive. This two color scarf is a good option for random balls of odd skeins I see and want to work with in the future.

Anyone who is interested in crafting for charity or who has ever thought about it  –  start small… why not make a hat (or two)? Baby hats are small and quick to make. I’ve done this for a few years and they work up quickly.  [And the recipients are so adorable!]

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