My father has never wanted to learn how to crochet. He would be really good at it because of the math involved and he would really want to create uniform stitches. (He likes things organized and lined up.) He has never wanted to crochet but has always supported me in my craft. When I was younger, I asked him to drop off a bag of scarves at a shelter because it wasn’t too far from where he worked. He said that the people he gave the bag to were really excited and still talks about how he doesn’t think the intended recipients got all of the scarves, because the workers all exclaimed – “these are new” when they looked into the bag.
Just because my father doesn’t want to learn to crochet doesn’t mean that he isn’t supportive. He proudly wears things that I have made and wants people to compliment what he’s wearing – generally a hat or scarf so he can say that his daughter made the item. He talks about what I make for other people. He has bought me yarn and still drops off things to shelters.

Having a supportive parent is wonderful, even if you can’t share the activity or have no interest in it. My father doesn’t wear sweaters that often, but I’m sure if I made him one, he would wear it. He is excited when I give him something made especially for him in a color that will match a certain jacket or coat. Everyone should have that feeling that someone has made something for them.
I may never meet many of the people I make scarves for, but my dad is a great cheerleader… “How many scarves have you made? How many afghans have you made? What group are those for? They are going to like those.” It’s nice to have someone say so.
In fact the friend whose funeral I went to, one of her most recent comments on my FB page when I said I would’ve run out of yarn if I had more time, chided me in a friendly way for poor planning. [And she suggested that I needed to buy more yarn. Everyone needs a yarn stash/hoarding supporter.] It wasn’t poor planning – I had more yarn at home, sometimes I underestimate my crocheting speed (and the skein’s yardage).
Many times people talk about WIPs – works in progress or UFOs – unfinished objects. While I may have five or six projects in progress at a time, I do finish them. If I abandon a project, I try not to let something languish too long. This past week, I finished several projects and then started a few others. Scarves are the most portable projects but generally I may have anywhere from two to four afghans in the works as well. Here are a few of the finished projects from this past week. 

I like this scarf, I like this yarn and the one remaining ball that I have from the project is going directly into the donation bag. This is a tape like linen yarn which changes from a flattish cotton tape to a sleek satiny section and changes colors throughout. The colors are fabulous and this made a wonderful scarf with incredible drape. Since I choose a shell pattern, it will be warm but I wouldn’t want to use this for an afghan.



Later, after I began to show some talent for crochet, she was added to crochet magazine, book and yarn lists because she would buy gifts for me. Since buying my first materials, she bought my first full crochet hook set (which I still own), yarn basket and other accessories over the years. She will tell people that I can read patterns and charts and that I’m really good at crocheting, but she would rather play bridge. She has no desire to learn to crochet and said that when she was in college, a lady at the company she worked for (one of the owners) tried to teach her to knit on company time. She tried, but never took to it. Just because she couldn’t knit (or crochet) didn’t mean that she didn’t appreciate others’ work, it just wasn’t the work she chose or liked to do.


Here are some photos of the recent projects I have been working on. The yarn that I dyed with Easter Egg dye and was all dyed together yielded an interesting dye pattern. I am fascinated how this turned out and will try this again. I liked the yarn, which I purchased at
The remainder variegated yarn that was too much to add to my mystery ball without being overpowering have been put together in this colorful afghan. Instead of completing a certain number of rounds in this large granny square afghan, I complete as many rows as I can. There are a couple of colors that have an odd number of rounds or incomplete rounds. The black pulls everything together. I wasn’t sure about this at first, but as I have progressed through this afghan and tried to go smallest amounts of variegated to largest, it’s starting to grow on me.

To plan or not to plan… That is the question.